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October 15, 2013 in confessions· momfessions· mommyhood· that's life

momfessions III

well. today, for us, it is going-to-the-pediatrician day, which is one of the least-fun days of the year, i’m afraid to say! boooo. i always see other mommies posting photos on various social networks of their unsuspecting babes sitting happily in their diaper upon the check-up table, but for us? oh no. oh no no. since maddalena was born, if i even make a single motion that implies that i may allow the bulk of her body weight to rest upon something other than my arms it is bad. news. and now that she’s older? one step in that doctor door and she is notttt joking around. so. hey hey! that’s us today! t-to-the-raumatizing!
in honor of that day, i shall document a few of my latest momfessions.
for many reasons, including the one above, we always, aaalways go weeks late to routine doctors visits. i like for maddalena to be a bit delayed in her vaccine schedule [they didn’t really take me seriously at the beginning when i asked them about a delayed schedule so, hey, i just implemented one myself!], and also, if her immune system is at all seeming less than 100% i am certainly not taking her to a germ and needle fest. but, really, if they put a psychologists office in the same building as our pediatrician, i’d just schedule back to back appointments for me and maddo to deal with our trauma after strangers look at us and then stab us with needles. and did i mention she’s 14 months and we’re going for her one year checkup? ick. preparing for all sorts of that mom guilt!
but on a lighter note, if your naked baby peepees on the shorts you’re wearing, and then you let them dry in the sunshine… they’re still considered pretty clean, right? no, i’m not asking for a friend. i’m asking for me, because i am [and was] totally okay with such a situation.

i have this pretty little cream and pink embroidered pillow that came from my grandmother’s house that says “you can never be too rich or too thin.” ha! i always loved it growing up, and now i have it in my house. so, for a while i thought it looked just lovely in maddalena’s room! then, i think i really scared some people, but it was only a touch of pink and a little parenting humor 😉 but, don’t worry, it’s now in our room, where i can happily gaze at it and share the joke just with myself. i mean, where did my grandmother even get such a pillow?!

last year, right before maddalena was born, like… while i was in labor… my twitter was hacked, and i had to sit there and change my password. while i was in labor. isn’t that just weird? it was weird, just weird feeling. now every time i get my password wrong, i remember that i had to change it. while i was in labor. because internet spam waits for no one.

most of my baby girl’s naps end up on me, still, and i have to admit, i really love it. she takes such short naps, so often it’s not even worth it to try and put her down when i could just cuddle her for 30 or so! but she’ll also sleep a little longer with me when she needs to than if i try and put her down. i feel so lucky to have such a good little cuddler because i can’t even get enough of it. so i just go with it! because one day, waa, she’ll be 16!

and oooh, moms whose babies go down for 2 hour naps? i mean, i can’t even imagine. maddalena has never done that, and i’m pretty sure if she one day slept in her crib for 2 hours i would straight up call an ambulance. i was the same way as a baby, so it doesn’t surprise me that she is my little sleep doppleganger. i’m so used to it, though, and to be honest, the few times she has slept for a little longer in her crib, i start to miss her! but if our next child wants to take maj naps every day, i won’t be complainin’!

also, i am pretty sure my child, as of just lately, is working on recording some sort of contemporary album called “tempah tantrums,” and it is not so good! the force is strong with this one. and last night, she was sitting in her little booster chair after eating, and she looked me dead in the eyes and held out her little spoon, threatening to drop it on the floor. on purpose! with so much ‘tude in her eyeballs! i mean, most of the time she tosses her spoon completely innocently, but this… this was for real. i can’t even believe my angel can ‘tude me like that!

and you know what else? i think it’s completely hilarious every time i see maddalena with her finger in her nose, which is one of her latest discoveries. hahaaaaa. oh, i love her so much, everything she does is cute and awesome to me. including those little ‘tudey eyes. yes, even the ‘tudey eyes are cute for now! i mean, you’ve gotta respect a girl with spirit!

also, i just sniffed a crayon because maddalena likes when we sniff things, but then i remembered those crayons that really do smell like different things! remember those? i’d totally forgotten. they kinda gave me headaches, so i think we’ll stick with sniffing the regular ones for now!

so, anyway. these are my momfessions!

[momfessions I & momfessions II]

[photos by my sister, christina!]

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Comments

  1. Jessica Lynn says

    October 15, 2013 at 5:21 pm

    I loved these momfessions! My daughter also takes super short naps. On the off chance that she sleeps for more than 45 minutes I start watching her like a hawk. I didn't know that most babies actually take 1.5 hour naps until I started a discussion about it…I'm pretty sure I cried that day. She also sleeps better on me, so I'm trying to relish in those moments instead of wishing them away.

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    • LifeofCharmings says

      October 16, 2013 at 4:00 pm

      oh, i'm glad i'm not the only one!!! sometimes you just have to enjoy the cuddles and tell everything else to wait 🙂 🙂

      Reply
  2. Ashley @ Words About Waverly says

    October 15, 2013 at 5:56 pm

    Too funny, love these!!! 🙂

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  3. Laurel Hammond says

    October 15, 2013 at 7:42 pm

    I love your blog more and more with each post. I follow so many blogs and rarely comment- but you did just use the words 'tudey and doppleganger in the same post… and I just think that deserves some credit.
    Also I don't have a kid- but I like how you make it seem "doable"- Thanks for that.
    (… Yes I am the same girl from instagram that once to prebuy some of the baby clothes you are selling because they are just too darn cute!)

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    • Laurel Hammond says

      October 16, 2013 at 6:44 am

      *wants to buy

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    • LifeofCharmings says

      October 16, 2013 at 4:00 pm

      awwww thank you!!!!

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  4. Lea says

    October 15, 2013 at 8:51 pm

    Good for you! Delay those shots as long as you want! I have a 10 month old who was a preemie, and I am delaying his. It's scary how many vaccinations they give these babies now. I'm only doing the most important ones. YOU are the mom. Always be in charge.( : And a great mom you are! Cute post. ( :

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    • LifeofCharmings says

      October 16, 2013 at 4:02 pm

      yes, thanks girly!! it is scary. there are definitely a couple i say no to!!

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  5. Manda says

    October 15, 2013 at 9:00 pm

    Ohhhh. Those darn tude eyes.
    They're happenin' with the little gal I care for.
    I can't help but laugh, but when she's a full on toddler. It won't be so funny!

    Manda from Eat Cake

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    • LifeofCharmings says

      October 16, 2013 at 4:03 pm

      ha!! i know, and then i picture it in the teen years!! oh dear!

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  6. Katie Did What says

    October 16, 2013 at 12:13 am

    haha the twitter thing made me laugh so much. what a strange thing to happen… and awww the 'tude! I LOVE it. A girl's gotta have spunk!

    xo

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  7. Marie says

    October 16, 2013 at 5:04 am

    haha love this post! the twitter event must have been really frustrating for you. hope it doesn't get hacked again!!! :/

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  8. Krystal says

    October 16, 2013 at 9:33 am

    you are so cute! i hope the dr. visit goes ok, wesley just had his one year. it always makes me laugh that when she gives him the shot he will cry so hard until she puts a toy in his face then he completely changes to being interested…it is so funny!
    i'm totally ok with pee shorts and other baby things like that, haha!

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    • LifeofCharmings says

      October 16, 2013 at 4:06 pm

      thanks girly!! aw wesley! and he only gets 1 shot?! we get like 900! madd apparently gets a little more traumatized then that. she doesn't forget a thing!

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  9. Fran says

    October 17, 2013 at 2:10 am

    Hope the doc visit went okay! i can't even imagine her little attitude eyes, she always looks so sweet haha

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  10. Denise Lopatka says

    October 17, 2013 at 6:14 pm

    oh my goodness i am dying laughing. i love you. and you are a fabulous mama! no need for mom guilt at all! and ugggggh shots. my hub and i agonized over them before G was born. i mean seriously, do we really need to be shooting our kids up with all kinds of 1,000,000 year old dead diseases???? i hate it. proud of u for delaying ur shots – u do whats right for u and ur sweet one! i delay G's like crazzzzzzzzzy

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  11. Britt R says

    October 18, 2013 at 2:26 am

    are we the same person? Bee, why can't we live closer! Im dying at the pee reference because I've totally done that before. And I'm ashamed to say it happened with poop when S was 6 weeks old. I full on ugly cried in the parking lot and then just walked into group and winged it.
    And Scarlett naps on my everyday. I LOVE it. Sometimes I wish I could fold some laundry, but then I just love her snuggles. She'll accidentally sleep in her crib for 2 hours sometimes but those days are rare, haha. I only wish I had put on a diaper before I sit a nurse her and then get stuck for an hour or so.

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  12. Britt R says

    October 18, 2013 at 2:27 am

    I mean **swing not crib. Psshh that never happens.

    Reply

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